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John Parke Custis[1, 2, 3]

Male 1754 - 1781  (26 years)


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  • Name John Parke Custis  [4
    Birth 27 Nov 1754  New Kent, New Kent, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4, 5
    Gender Male 
    Death 5 Nov 1781  Eltham, New Kent, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4, 5
    Burial Mount Vernon, Fairfax, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    Person ID I47636  Master
    Last Modified 9 Feb 2023 

    Father Daniel Parke Custis,   b. 15 Oct 1711, Queens Creek, James City, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 8 Jul 1757, , New Kent, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 45 years) 
    Mother Martha Dandridge,   b. 21 Jun 1731, Chestnut Grove, New Kent, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 May 1802, Mount Vernon, Fairfax, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 70 years) 
    Marriage 1749  [6
    Family ID F10823  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Eleanor Calvert,   b. 3 Feb 1754, Mount Airy Plantation, Prince Georges, Maryland, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 28 Sep 1811, Croom, Prince Georges, Maryland, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 57 years) 
    Marriage 3 Feb 1774  Mount Airy Plantation, Prince Georges, Maryland, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [7, 8
    Children 
     1. Elizabeth "Betsey" Parke Custis,   b. 21 Aug 1776, Mount Airy Plantation, Prince Georges, Maryland, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1 Jan 1832, Abington, Fairfax, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 55 years)
     2. Martha Patsy Parke Custis,   b. 31 Dec 1777, Mount Airy Plantation, Prince Georges, Maryland, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 13 Jul 1854, Tudor Place, Georgetown, District of Columbia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 76 years)
     3. Eleanor Parke Custis Lewis,   b. 21 Mar 1779, Mount Airy Plantation, Prince Georges, Maryland, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 15 Jul 1852, Audley, Clarke, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 73 years)
    +4. George Washington Parke Custis,   b. 30 Apr 1781, Mount Airy Plantation, Prince Georges, Maryland, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 10 Oct 1857, Arlington, Fairfax, Virginia, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 76 years)
    Family ID F10816  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 5 Feb 2023 

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  • Notes 
    • Eltham
      Eltham was situated in New Kent County, Virginia. The property was owned by the Bassett family. Captain William Bassett was reportedly the first of the family to come to Virginia. He died in 1672 and was succeeded by his son, William Bassett, who died in 1673. This second William Bassett was a member of the Virginia Council. There was a third William Bassett, who inherited the place and was a member of the House of Burgesses. The son of the third Bassett, William Burwell, became owner of Eltham and also a Burgess.

      The mansion was said to have been built as early at the 1660's. It was constructed of brick. The house was considered by many architects to have been one of the finest examples of Georgian architecture in the South.

      The illustration of Eltham above was made from a drawing done by a member of the Bassett family. One description of the house reads, "There was a central portion of the house two-and-one-half stories high with dormer windows in the well-designed roof. Through passages on each side one reached the low wings to the house." Another description says, "The house presented an imposing front, one hundred and fifty feet from wing to wing; the entire building, with peaked roof and gable front, rising above them like the keep of a castle. Over the red English bricks of its walls, time and clinging tribes of lichens had thrown a soft tinting of purple and gray, while a stately avenue of Lombardy poplars led away from the mossy stone steps of the entrance, adding grandeur to the picturesqueness of the place. Many times during the siege of York were the leading spirits of the Revolution gathered at Eltham (which was not far from Yorktown) as guests of Colonel Burwell Bassett, who was a brother-in-law of General Washington and of Governor Harrison, having married the sister of Mrs. Washington [Anna Maria Dandridge; they married on May 2, 1757]."

      One reason that there is interest in Eltham is that General and Mrs. Washington often visited the Bassets at Eltham, and Burwell Basset was one of the agents who had charge of Washington's business affairs while he was in command of the army during the American Revolution. In one of his letters to Bassett, written from Cambridge, Massachusetts, in February 1776, he says: "I thank you heartily for the attention you have kindly paid to my landed affairs on the Ohio; my interest in which I shall be more than ever careful of, as in the worst event they may serve for an asylum." This letter was owned by Herbert A. Claiborne of Richmond.

      Another visitor of note was Andrew Burnaby, who wrote, "May 26, 1760. Having procured three horses, for myself, servant, and baggage, I departed from Williamsburg, and travelled that night to Eltham; twenty-five miles. . . . May 27. I ferried over Pamunky river . . . . " Burnaby wrote Travels Through North America, a popular book which went through three editions in the 1700's.

      The Bassetts intermarried with many prominent Virginia families, including the Dandridges, the Lewises, the Claibornes, the Burwells and others. John Parke Custis, son of Martha Washington (and stepson of George Washington), died at Eltham, the home of his uncle. Martha and George adopted his two children. According to George Washington Parke Custis (John Parke Custis' biological son and George and Martha's adopted son), John Parke Custis "sickened while on duty as extra aide to the commander-in-chief in the trenches before Yorktown. Aware that his disease (the camp-fever), would be mortal, the sufferer had yet one last lingering wish to be gratified, and he would die content. It was to behold the surrender of the sword of Cornwallis. He was supported to the ground, and witnessed the admired spectacle, and was then removed to Eltham, a distance of thirty miles from camp."

      The house burned in the 1870's, but the massive foundations could still be seen in the early 1900's.

      The information in this article was compiled from information in Frances Archer Christian and Susanne Massie, editors, Homes and Gardens in Old Virginia, Garrett and Massie, Incorporated, Richmond, VA, 1931; Robert A. Lancaster, Jr., Historic Virginia Homes and Churches, J.B. Lippincott Company, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, 1915; Ella B. Washington, "The Harrisons in History," The Magazine of American History, 1889; Recollections and Private Memoirs of Washington, By His Adopted Son, George Washingto Parke Custis, with A Memoir of the Author, by His Daughter; and Illustrative and Explanatory Notes, by Benson J. Lossing, Derby & Jackson, New York, 1860.

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